Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Girl calls me out on the three day rule

viking22

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Ive had two dates with this Russian girl. First date was last Saturday and I planned to wait a day or two but Sunday afternoon she texted me asking me out.

Second date (on Thursday) we held hands and at the end of the date I kissed her. I then planned to wait three days before getting in touch again. But today she texts me saying

"Hi viking22 i guess you must be busy or you were never taught to contact a girl first."

Im not sure how to respond. I don't think im being unreasonable.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Desert Fox

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Stuck up b1tch.

Doesn't even warrant a response to explain yourself. If you respond immediately it shows that indeed you were being a b1tch following the 3 day rule you read on some site trying to fake like you're busy when really you were awiting by the phone.

Just make her wait another day or two for being a huge b1tch then call her up and bang her.
 

Charm&Style

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How is she being a b!tch? Honestly there some weird sh!t you guys cling on to, like the 3day rule. If you take a girl out and everything goes great why act like a retard, wait 3 days for that huge emotion rush to run out, and then give her a call? Yeah if your date goes crappy, wait it out but not if its goes smooth.

Lastly, just text her and say yeah i was busy with "so-and-so" but im free at "date-time" lets go get a drink.
 

Dust 2 Dust

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viking22 said:
"Hi viking22 i guess you must be busy or you were never taught to contact a girl first."
I agree with Desert Fox to an extent.

If you were to respond back quickly then she'll know you're playing games. I would just ignore her text and call her in a day or two.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Darles Chickens

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Tell her you were busy trying to figure out what the Russian was for do you want to come over and watch a movie tonight.;)
 

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Darles Chickens said:
Tell her you were busy trying to figure out what the Russian was for do you want to come over and watch a movie tonight.;)

^^ winner. That's what I'd do.
 

DonJuan11

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Dust 2 Dust said:
If you were to respond back quickly then she'll know you're playing games. I would just ignore her text and call her in a day or two.
Exactly.
 

viking22

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Well I've never had a girl do this before. So it threw me a little.

Even if she was thinking to herself that I was playing games or something, I was surprised she'd actually bring it up. Perhaps she is the kinda girl who is used to guys texting her hours after a date.

But you are right. I'll wait a day or so, say ive been busy and ask her out again.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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