"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl calls me out on the three day rule

viking22

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Ive had two dates with this Russian girl. First date was last Saturday and I planned to wait a day or two but Sunday afternoon she texted me asking me out.

Second date (on Thursday) we held hands and at the end of the date I kissed her. I then planned to wait three days before getting in touch again. But today she texts me saying

"Hi viking22 i guess you must be busy or you were never taught to contact a girl first."

Im not sure how to respond. I don't think im being unreasonable.
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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Desert Fox

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Stuck up b1tch.

Doesn't even warrant a response to explain yourself. If you respond immediately it shows that indeed you were being a b1tch following the 3 day rule you read on some site trying to fake like you're busy when really you were awiting by the phone.

Just make her wait another day or two for being a huge b1tch then call her up and bang her.
 

Charm&Style

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How is she being a b!tch? Honestly there some weird sh!t you guys cling on to, like the 3day rule. If you take a girl out and everything goes great why act like a retard, wait 3 days for that huge emotion rush to run out, and then give her a call? Yeah if your date goes crappy, wait it out but not if its goes smooth.

Lastly, just text her and say yeah i was busy with "so-and-so" but im free at "date-time" lets go get a drink.
 

Dust 2 Dust

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viking22 said:
"Hi viking22 i guess you must be busy or you were never taught to contact a girl first."
I agree with Desert Fox to an extent.

If you were to respond back quickly then she'll know you're playing games. I would just ignore her text and call her in a day or two.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Darles Chickens

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Tell her you were busy trying to figure out what the Russian was for do you want to come over and watch a movie tonight.;)
 

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Darles Chickens said:
Tell her you were busy trying to figure out what the Russian was for do you want to come over and watch a movie tonight.;)

^^ winner. That's what I'd do.
 

DonJuan11

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Dust 2 Dust said:
If you were to respond back quickly then she'll know you're playing games. I would just ignore her text and call her in a day or two.
Exactly.
 

viking22

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Well I've never had a girl do this before. So it threw me a little.

Even if she was thinking to herself that I was playing games or something, I was surprised she'd actually bring it up. Perhaps she is the kinda girl who is used to guys texting her hours after a date.

But you are right. I'll wait a day or so, say ive been busy and ask her out again.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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