"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girl calls me out on the three day rule

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viking22

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Ive had two dates with this Russian girl. First date was last Saturday and I planned to wait a day or two but Sunday afternoon she texted me asking me out.

Second date (on Thursday) we held hands and at the end of the date I kissed her. I then planned to wait three days before getting in touch again. But today she texts me saying

"Hi viking22 i guess you must be busy or you were never taught to contact a girl first."

Im not sure how to respond. I don't think im being unreasonable.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Stuck up b1tch.

Doesn't even warrant a response to explain yourself. If you respond immediately it shows that indeed you were being a b1tch following the 3 day rule you read on some site trying to fake like you're busy when really you were awiting by the phone.

Just make her wait another day or two for being a huge b1tch then call her up and bang her.
 
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Charm&Style

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How is she being a b!tch? Honestly there some weird sh!t you guys cling on to, like the 3day rule. If you take a girl out and everything goes great why act like a retard, wait 3 days for that huge emotion rush to run out, and then give her a call? Yeah if your date goes crappy, wait it out but not if its goes smooth.

Lastly, just text her and say yeah i was busy with "so-and-so" but im free at "date-time" lets go get a drink.
 
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viking22 said:
"Hi viking22 i guess you must be busy or you were never taught to contact a girl first."
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I agree with Desert Fox to an extent.

If you were to respond back quickly then she'll know you're playing games. I would just ignore her text and call her in a day or two.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tell her you were busy trying to figure out what the Russian was for do you want to come over and watch a movie tonight.;)
 
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Yuma

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Darles Chickens said:
Tell her you were busy trying to figure out what the Russian was for do you want to come over and watch a movie tonight.;)
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^^ winner. That's what I'd do.
 
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Dust 2 Dust said:
If you were to respond back quickly then she'll know you're playing games. I would just ignore her text and call her in a day or two.
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Exactly.
 
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viking22

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Well I've never had a girl do this before. So it threw me a little.

Even if she was thinking to herself that I was playing games or something, I was surprised she'd actually bring it up. Perhaps she is the kinda girl who is used to guys texting her hours after a date.

But you are right. I'll wait a day or so, say ive been busy and ask her out again.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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