"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl calls me out on the three day rule

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viking22

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Ive had two dates with this Russian girl. First date was last Saturday and I planned to wait a day or two but Sunday afternoon she texted me asking me out.

Second date (on Thursday) we held hands and at the end of the date I kissed her. I then planned to wait three days before getting in touch again. But today she texts me saying

"Hi viking22 i guess you must be busy or you were never taught to contact a girl first."

Im not sure how to respond. I don't think im being unreasonable.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Stuck up b1tch.

Doesn't even warrant a response to explain yourself. If you respond immediately it shows that indeed you were being a b1tch following the 3 day rule you read on some site trying to fake like you're busy when really you were awiting by the phone.

Just make her wait another day or two for being a huge b1tch then call her up and bang her.
 
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Charm&Style

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How is she being a b!tch? Honestly there some weird sh!t you guys cling on to, like the 3day rule. If you take a girl out and everything goes great why act like a retard, wait 3 days for that huge emotion rush to run out, and then give her a call? Yeah if your date goes crappy, wait it out but not if its goes smooth.

Lastly, just text her and say yeah i was busy with "so-and-so" but im free at "date-time" lets go get a drink.
 
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viking22 said:
"Hi viking22 i guess you must be busy or you were never taught to contact a girl first."
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I agree with Desert Fox to an extent.

If you were to respond back quickly then she'll know you're playing games. I would just ignore her text and call her in a day or two.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Tell her you were busy trying to figure out what the Russian was for do you want to come over and watch a movie tonight.;)
 
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Darles Chickens said:
Tell her you were busy trying to figure out what the Russian was for do you want to come over and watch a movie tonight.;)
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^^ winner. That's what I'd do.
 
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Dust 2 Dust said:
If you were to respond back quickly then she'll know you're playing games. I would just ignore her text and call her in a day or two.
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Exactly.
 
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viking22

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Well I've never had a girl do this before. So it threw me a little.

Even if she was thinking to herself that I was playing games or something, I was surprised she'd actually bring it up. Perhaps she is the kinda girl who is used to guys texting her hours after a date.

But you are right. I'll wait a day or so, say ive been busy and ask her out again.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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