"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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girl called me out

xomel

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so this girl called me out in front of her friends. her and her friends hang around my clique and flirt in groups of three.

HB8: did you tp my house?"
xomel: do you honestly think i care enough about you enough to spend $5 on tp just so i can spend 30 minutes to change what you do for 10 minutes the morning after.
HB8: no, but i know you care she then initiated kino and punched my arm.
first i didnt say anything for about 3 seconds then i said "no i like sluts, remember?"

what should i say in response to
"i know that you care though"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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xomel

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Originally posted by This Times For Real
Maybe you act to much like an afc around her before?
yes i used to be an afc until i found out about the dj bible about 2 months ago.

what do i say in this kind of situation.
 

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well the situation will probably never come up again for you, but thats usually when id throw in a neg hit. That my friend was a small BS test. When she said "i know you care" You shoulda said something like, what makes you think so? There is no way i could care about someone who wears xxxx shoes/shirt or make some comment about one of her physical features.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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