"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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girl called me out

xomel

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so this girl called me out in front of her friends. her and her friends hang around my clique and flirt in groups of three.

HB8: did you tp my house?"
xomel: do you honestly think i care enough about you enough to spend $5 on tp just so i can spend 30 minutes to change what you do for 10 minutes the morning after.
HB8: no, but i know you care she then initiated kino and punched my arm.
first i didnt say anything for about 3 seconds then i said "no i like sluts, remember?"

what should i say in response to
"i know that you care though"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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xomel

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Originally posted by This Times For Real
Maybe you act to much like an afc around her before?
yes i used to be an afc until i found out about the dj bible about 2 months ago.

what do i say in this kind of situation.
 

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well the situation will probably never come up again for you, but thats usually when id throw in a neg hit. That my friend was a small BS test. When she said "i know you care" You shoulda said something like, what makes you think so? There is no way i could care about someone who wears xxxx shoes/shirt or make some comment about one of her physical features.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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