"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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so this girl called me out in front of her friends. her and her friends hang around my clique and flirt in groups of three.

HB8: did you tp my house?"
xomel: do you honestly think i care enough about you enough to spend $5 on tp just so i can spend 30 minutes to change what you do for 10 minutes the morning after.
HB8: no, but i know you care she then initiated kino and punched my arm.
first i didnt say anything for about 3 seconds then i said "no i like sluts, remember?"

what should i say in response to
"i know that you care though"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by This Times For Real
Maybe you act to much like an afc around her before?
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yes i used to be an afc until i found out about the dj bible about 2 months ago.

what do i say in this kind of situation.
 
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well the situation will probably never come up again for you, but thats usually when id throw in a neg hit. That my friend was a small BS test. When she said "i know you care" You shoulda said something like, what makes you think so? There is no way i could care about someone who wears xxxx shoes/shirt or make some comment about one of her physical features.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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