“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Girl at work gave me number, I don't want it yet (?)

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Alright guys here's a situation I'm hoping you can shed some light on.

I recently started a new job that I plan on staying at for a while, move up the corporate ladder and all that. There's this girl I work closely with who has been flirting with me on and off, and it's obvious to me she wants me to make a move. This weekend I'm going to a coworkers birthday party in which this girl will also be attending. Earlier today she told me how her class project partner didn't show up to their meeting yesterday and that if she had my cell number we could have done something until traffic died down. Later on she emailed me her cell number saying I should call her if I get lost on the way to this coworkers party. (It's some place local that I've been to before).

I'm well familiar with the phrase "don't dip your pen in the company ink" and have been burned in the past doing that. I'm focusing on other things right now and don't feel the need to pursue this much further. How would you handle this situation? Is there a way for me to keep the possibility open with her in the future?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MCristo

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It's not like you have to do anything with her
 

ZenGodMod

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cunning how she gave you her number. makes it seem just a genuine concern for her co-workers well being. If you get lost do call, ask directions.

MCristo is right. You know that thing between your legs, it's you who chooses where to stick it.
 

Prodigy746

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How hot is she?? How important is this job to you??? How much money are you making?? These questions are important for you to determine if its worth it or not.

I am supervisor now in a well known company now and dont even take any numbers from girls. I started of as a part timer and at one poin i had a phone number of every white girl that worked for the company and some black girls. I recently had a girl ask me out and offered her number but i told her i couldnt take it because i was supervisor. Hard thing to do but i love my job and the pay that comes with it.
 

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No girls at work. make it a rule. especially if you plan on staying there and moving up the ladder. don't **** where you eat.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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tick37

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Hey, if you can get this girl, who knows better than to hook up with a coworker, then you can find another one. Drop this drama and look for a woman outside of work.Trust me...I know what I'm talking about.

Trust me!
 

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Thanks guys, I guess I'm pretty much SOL with this chick. Any tips on stopping this from escalating while keeping it friendly? (I'm well versed in how to handle this in an unfriendly way).
 
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