"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl at Church

Hikapo

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There is this girl at church that I feel a strong attraction for. Saw some IOI's, so its worth a shot.

Problem is, she is always around her female friends. Which means, I have to open a big 3-5 set should I go for it.


Apparently, I don't have the balls yet to do that.

Someone give me a kick in the back and tell me to man up please?:box:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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n00bPimp

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man up.
big sets are easy because its unlikely that they will care if one of them leaves the group. Just tap your target on the shoulder and open her. This is in contrast with 2 or 3-sets, where the other girl(s) wants to know who the heck you are and want to be part of your convo. But then again, its easier to talk to 2 sets, in 3 sets the other 2 girls will keep each other entertained while you talk to your target.
There problem solved.
 

Warrior74

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The good thing about church is the lack of strong ****blocking like in a club. All you have to do is say, "Ladies, hello. Sister XXX can I speak with you for a moment". Nobody can hate on that in church. Polite and bold wins the day in the church setting. If anyone suspects you of doing "evil" and you've given no reason for them to think so then the onus is on them to prove (in the court of public opinion) why they think so. Of course if you have some sort of track record or bad rep, it would be best to take a subtler approach.
 

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I had a 23 yr old virgin girl at church today ask me to lunch with. her. friends. afterward. I declined. If you can't isolate, don't go.

I met her for the first time yesterday around noon for an hour to help a friend move. I could not isolate her there. She's latched on to me now, dressed really colorful today with perfect application of makeup. Her eyes are so doll-like lovely. I've got to somehow get a crack at that. We'll see next week what I can do to get her alone. If I impregnate her, then we Have to get married you know.
 

Warrior74

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Poonani Maker said:
. If I impregnate her, then we Have to get married you know.
hahaha. Well then I guess you know what to do! Facials for the win.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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