"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girl at Church

Hikapo

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There is this girl at church that I feel a strong attraction for. Saw some IOI's, so its worth a shot.

Problem is, she is always around her female friends. Which means, I have to open a big 3-5 set should I go for it.


Apparently, I don't have the balls yet to do that.

Someone give me a kick in the back and tell me to man up please?:box:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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n00bPimp

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man up.
big sets are easy because its unlikely that they will care if one of them leaves the group. Just tap your target on the shoulder and open her. This is in contrast with 2 or 3-sets, where the other girl(s) wants to know who the heck you are and want to be part of your convo. But then again, its easier to talk to 2 sets, in 3 sets the other 2 girls will keep each other entertained while you talk to your target.
There problem solved.
 

Warrior74

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The good thing about church is the lack of strong ****blocking like in a club. All you have to do is say, "Ladies, hello. Sister XXX can I speak with you for a moment". Nobody can hate on that in church. Polite and bold wins the day in the church setting. If anyone suspects you of doing "evil" and you've given no reason for them to think so then the onus is on them to prove (in the court of public opinion) why they think so. Of course if you have some sort of track record or bad rep, it would be best to take a subtler approach.
 

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I had a 23 yr old virgin girl at church today ask me to lunch with. her. friends. afterward. I declined. If you can't isolate, don't go.

I met her for the first time yesterday around noon for an hour to help a friend move. I could not isolate her there. She's latched on to me now, dressed really colorful today with perfect application of makeup. Her eyes are so doll-like lovely. I've got to somehow get a crack at that. We'll see next week what I can do to get her alone. If I impregnate her, then we Have to get married you know.
 

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Poonani Maker said:
. If I impregnate her, then we Have to get married you know.
hahaha. Well then I guess you know what to do! Facials for the win.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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