"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl at Church

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There is this girl at church that I feel a strong attraction for. Saw some IOI's, so its worth a shot.

Problem is, she is always around her female friends. Which means, I have to open a big 3-5 set should I go for it.


Apparently, I don't have the balls yet to do that.

Someone give me a kick in the back and tell me to man up please?:box:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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man up.
big sets are easy because its unlikely that they will care if one of them leaves the group. Just tap your target on the shoulder and open her. This is in contrast with 2 or 3-sets, where the other girl(s) wants to know who the heck you are and want to be part of your convo. But then again, its easier to talk to 2 sets, in 3 sets the other 2 girls will keep each other entertained while you talk to your target.
There problem solved.
 
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The good thing about church is the lack of strong ****blocking like in a club. All you have to do is say, "Ladies, hello. Sister XXX can I speak with you for a moment". Nobody can hate on that in church. Polite and bold wins the day in the church setting. If anyone suspects you of doing "evil" and you've given no reason for them to think so then the onus is on them to prove (in the court of public opinion) why they think so. Of course if you have some sort of track record or bad rep, it would be best to take a subtler approach.
 
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I had a 23 yr old virgin girl at church today ask me to lunch with. her. friends. afterward. I declined. If you can't isolate, don't go.

I met her for the first time yesterday around noon for an hour to help a friend move. I could not isolate her there. She's latched on to me now, dressed really colorful today with perfect application of makeup. Her eyes are so doll-like lovely. I've got to somehow get a crack at that. We'll see next week what I can do to get her alone. If I impregnate her, then we Have to get married you know.
 
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Poonani Maker said:
. If I impregnate her, then we Have to get married you know.
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hahaha. Well then I guess you know what to do! Facials for the win.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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