"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girl at Church

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There is this girl at church that I feel a strong attraction for. Saw some IOI's, so its worth a shot.

Problem is, she is always around her female friends. Which means, I have to open a big 3-5 set should I go for it.


Apparently, I don't have the balls yet to do that.

Someone give me a kick in the back and tell me to man up please?:box:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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man up.
big sets are easy because its unlikely that they will care if one of them leaves the group. Just tap your target on the shoulder and open her. This is in contrast with 2 or 3-sets, where the other girl(s) wants to know who the heck you are and want to be part of your convo. But then again, its easier to talk to 2 sets, in 3 sets the other 2 girls will keep each other entertained while you talk to your target.
There problem solved.
 
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The good thing about church is the lack of strong ****blocking like in a club. All you have to do is say, "Ladies, hello. Sister XXX can I speak with you for a moment". Nobody can hate on that in church. Polite and bold wins the day in the church setting. If anyone suspects you of doing "evil" and you've given no reason for them to think so then the onus is on them to prove (in the court of public opinion) why they think so. Of course if you have some sort of track record or bad rep, it would be best to take a subtler approach.
 
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I had a 23 yr old virgin girl at church today ask me to lunch with. her. friends. afterward. I declined. If you can't isolate, don't go.

I met her for the first time yesterday around noon for an hour to help a friend move. I could not isolate her there. She's latched on to me now, dressed really colorful today with perfect application of makeup. Her eyes are so doll-like lovely. I've got to somehow get a crack at that. We'll see next week what I can do to get her alone. If I impregnate her, then we Have to get married you know.
 
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Poonani Maker said:
. If I impregnate her, then we Have to get married you know.
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hahaha. Well then I guess you know what to do! Facials for the win.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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