"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl asking shy guy out?

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learninlivin

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Ok, so I need some opinions. Is it weird/ against the rules for a girl to ask a guy out? I've known this guy for a year or so and he's really shy. He seems to disappear when I'm around (We're neighbors/I watch his sisters sometimes). I'm pretty sure he likes me too. I'm outgoing, but I've never made the first move before. I've hinted, but sometimes I think boys are a little dense (no offense). As former AFC's, do you think it's okay to ask him to out/go do something? Idk, I feel embarrassed.. because I don't want to be rejected either. Ugh, thanks in advance!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Haha it's totally OK! Most of us here wish things like this happened more often! I wish girls had asked me out in my shy teenager years :( Actually they tried but I was quite stupid ;)

Question is of course how you find him attractive if you say he's "AFC". But hey maybe you'll teach him a thing or two...
 
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It's not weird, I tend to get it a lot since I'm generally in a LTR recently so I just flirt a little and enjoy a girl's company when I meet her but don't have any real incling to take it further because I'm happy with my girlfriend. It usually ends up with her getting my number and asking me to meet up again, I don't find it weird at all - in fact I feel quite flattered by it and I'm sure most guys would love it.
 
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He most likely won't say no unless you're really unattractive.

I miss the days when girls used to ask me out...life was so easy.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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