"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girl asking shy guy out?

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learninlivin

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Ok, so I need some opinions. Is it weird/ against the rules for a girl to ask a guy out? I've known this guy for a year or so and he's really shy. He seems to disappear when I'm around (We're neighbors/I watch his sisters sometimes). I'm pretty sure he likes me too. I'm outgoing, but I've never made the first move before. I've hinted, but sometimes I think boys are a little dense (no offense). As former AFC's, do you think it's okay to ask him to out/go do something? Idk, I feel embarrassed.. because I don't want to be rejected either. Ugh, thanks in advance!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Haha it's totally OK! Most of us here wish things like this happened more often! I wish girls had asked me out in my shy teenager years :( Actually they tried but I was quite stupid ;)

Question is of course how you find him attractive if you say he's "AFC". But hey maybe you'll teach him a thing or two...
 
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It's not weird, I tend to get it a lot since I'm generally in a LTR recently so I just flirt a little and enjoy a girl's company when I meet her but don't have any real incling to take it further because I'm happy with my girlfriend. It usually ends up with her getting my number and asking me to meet up again, I don't find it weird at all - in fact I feel quite flattered by it and I'm sure most guys would love it.
 
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He most likely won't say no unless you're really unattractive.

I miss the days when girls used to ask me out...life was so easy.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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