"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl asking shy guy out?

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Ok, so I need some opinions. Is it weird/ against the rules for a girl to ask a guy out? I've known this guy for a year or so and he's really shy. He seems to disappear when I'm around (We're neighbors/I watch his sisters sometimes). I'm pretty sure he likes me too. I'm outgoing, but I've never made the first move before. I've hinted, but sometimes I think boys are a little dense (no offense). As former AFC's, do you think it's okay to ask him to out/go do something? Idk, I feel embarrassed.. because I don't want to be rejected either. Ugh, thanks in advance!
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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Haha it's totally OK! Most of us here wish things like this happened more often! I wish girls had asked me out in my shy teenager years :( Actually they tried but I was quite stupid ;)

Question is of course how you find him attractive if you say he's "AFC". But hey maybe you'll teach him a thing or two...
 
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It's not weird, I tend to get it a lot since I'm generally in a LTR recently so I just flirt a little and enjoy a girl's company when I meet her but don't have any real incling to take it further because I'm happy with my girlfriend. It usually ends up with her getting my number and asking me to meet up again, I don't find it weird at all - in fact I feel quite flattered by it and I'm sure most guys would love it.
 
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He most likely won't say no unless you're really unattractive.

I miss the days when girls used to ask me out...life was so easy.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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