Girl Asked Me Out, But...

[MountainSlide]

So I was talking with this girl at work over the past week (she doesn't work there - customer), and then she asks me to come out drinking with her lol, and says that her boyfriend is paying for everything.

Seems a little messed up from my experiences; girls with boyfriends typically don't invite single men out. Maybe I just have a great personality and she wants to hook me up with her friends?

 

[bigneil]

She disqualified herself. Next.

 

[Urbanyst]

I've had this happen with women who have boyfriends and husbands.

Most of these women just want the validation and to feel like they have options when (not if) their current relationship implodes.

 

[Young OG]

See if she has some hot single friends she can introduce you to.

 

[Glassguy]

I agree with Neil.

If she invited you out with her, its a date.

Since she invited her out with her and her boyfriend, its just weird.

If you're bored and just want something to do get into, it might not be a bad idea to meet up with them for a drink. Maybe ask who else is coming. She could have hot friends, she may be looking to monkey branch and if you show up and be fun and chill, might come knocking on your door later down the road.

That being said.....It could have some benefits as long as you go there not expecting anything but a couple drinks and laughs. It could be a quick way to expand your social circle and pick up a lay or two from it.

 

[bigneil]

If she liked you she would keep her boyfriend a secret.

"No group dates" Coach Corey Wayne

 

[Glassguy]

^^^^^

agree again, but if you are out and about already and the BF is buying drinks, it doesnt hurt anything to stop by and see whats up. This chick could have several hit-able single friends that show up.

With the right expectations, this could be all to gain and nothing to lose.

 

[MountainSlide]

^^^^^

agree again, but if you are out and about already and the BF is buying drinks, it doesn't hurt anything to stop by and see whats up. This chick could have several hit-able single friends that show up.

With the right expectations, this could be all to gain and nothing to lose.

I totally agree, but it seemed like when she first mentioned him, it was by accident. She says "my boyfriend" then instantly stops herself and says "or sort of boyfriend" -- "Kind of made it official the other day" -- "But he doesn't seem to care much" -- "Oh well, we'll see if he messages me later tonight" -- "not that I really care"

There are going to be other people there though. Other friends. I already decided that I would go. I am bringing a wingman and we are going to g'ter done.