girlfriend asked for no contact for a week. well, i changed both of our account password in facebook just to play safe for unexpected changes. 2 days later she begs me to give her back her password and asks why i changed it. i havent touched it or even viewed it because of our contract. she's currently banging my phone right now and texted me that one message. any thoughts?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
i changed both of our account password in facebook just to prevent unexpected changes. i still gotta go through 5 more days, she said that we're not supposed to change anything yet and wait til the last day, well just have to hold on to it so changed both and haven't touched them since. what are ur thoughts?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Yeah....so, let's just ignore this guy.
@mm92: well one of the reasons why i changed that was also to see if she would still try to contact me even if i did that, well she did.
how did i manage to get a gf? uhh...ive been in a lot of relationships already since 2007, idk if im going to **** this up, the only loophole with what i was doing was that i forgot she knew my number at home.
how did i manage to get a gf? uhh...ive been in a lot of relationships already since 2007, idk if im going to **** this up, the only loophole with what i was doing was that i forgot she knew my number at home.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ThreeStorms
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You know that she uses her FB account for other things than contacting you, do you?
Love's Orphan
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You changed her password to see if she would contact you? Of course she will! It's HER facebook account! After this, she will go NC for ONE eternity! Great job!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
youngmack
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WTF? Your not serious bro.. What does changing her password have to do with anything? Something is wrong with this guy
TonyBaloney
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So your paranoid that shes messing around with other guys?
Fair play to you - keep her on lock down = own her........
Fair play to you - keep her on lock down = own her........
Krueg
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She wants space so she can sleep with other guys! Dump her!
Even you know she's up to no good, why else would you change passwords?
I'm sure you want to believe she's not ho'ing behind your back BUT, what High Interest girl wants space?
Even you know she's up to no good, why else would you change passwords?
I'm sure you want to believe she's not ho'ing behind your back BUT, what High Interest girl wants space?
The LadyKiller
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I don't want to offend, but you're a bit of a control freak. Like the other posters said, it makes 0 sense to change HER personal information just because she dumped you. Changing her personal information just to see if she'd contact you is stupid.
You're the girl here - desperately seeking attention (from her). The "unexpected changes" line is bull. Unless you so afraid she'd portray you negatively on facebook or something.
Dumb move man. Combine that with the desperation in your other posts (if it's the same girl) and you're never getting her back. Move on.
You're the girl here - desperately seeking attention (from her). The "unexpected changes" line is bull. Unless you so afraid she'd portray you negatively on facebook or something.
Dumb move man. Combine that with the desperation in your other posts (if it's the same girl) and you're never getting her back. Move on.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.