girlfriend asked for no contact for a week. well, i changed both of our account password in facebook just to play safe for unexpected changes. 2 days later she begs me to give her back her password and asks why i changed it. i havent touched it or even viewed it because of our contract. she's currently banging my phone right now and texted me that one message. any thoughts?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
girl asked for no contact
- Thread starter thorwynn
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
i changed both of our account password in facebook just to prevent unexpected changes. i still gotta go through 5 more days, she said that we're not supposed to change anything yet and wait til the last day, well just have to hold on to it so changed both and haven't touched them since. what are ur thoughts?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Yeah....so, let's just ignore this guy.
@mm92: well one of the reasons why i changed that was also to see if she would still try to contact me even if i did that, well she did.
how did i manage to get a gf? uhh...ive been in a lot of relationships already since 2007, idk if im going to **** this up, the only loophole with what i was doing was that i forgot she knew my number at home.
how did i manage to get a gf? uhh...ive been in a lot of relationships already since 2007, idk if im going to **** this up, the only loophole with what i was doing was that i forgot she knew my number at home.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
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ThreeStorms
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You know that she uses her FB account for other things than contacting you, do you?
Love's Orphan
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You changed her password to see if she would contact you? Of course she will! It's HER facebook account! After this, she will go NC for ONE eternity! Great job!
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
youngmack
Master Don Juan
WTF? Your not serious bro.. What does changing her password have to do with anything? Something is wrong with this guy
TonyBaloney
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So your paranoid that shes messing around with other guys?
Fair play to you - keep her on lock down = own her........
Fair play to you - keep her on lock down = own her........
Krueg
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She wants space so she can sleep with other guys! Dump her!
Even you know she's up to no good, why else would you change passwords?
I'm sure you want to believe she's not ho'ing behind your back BUT, what High Interest girl wants space?
Even you know she's up to no good, why else would you change passwords?
I'm sure you want to believe she's not ho'ing behind your back BUT, what High Interest girl wants space?
The LadyKiller
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I don't want to offend, but you're a bit of a control freak. Like the other posters said, it makes 0 sense to change HER personal information just because she dumped you. Changing her personal information just to see if she'd contact you is stupid.
You're the girl here - desperately seeking attention (from her). The "unexpected changes" line is bull. Unless you so afraid she'd portray you negatively on facebook or something.
Dumb move man. Combine that with the desperation in your other posts (if it's the same girl) and you're never getting her back. Move on.
You're the girl here - desperately seeking attention (from her). The "unexpected changes" line is bull. Unless you so afraid she'd portray you negatively on facebook or something.
Dumb move man. Combine that with the desperation in your other posts (if it's the same girl) and you're never getting her back. Move on.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.