girlfriend asked for no contact for a week. well, i changed both of our account password in facebook just to play safe for unexpected changes. 2 days later she begs me to give her back her password and asks why i changed it. i havent touched it or even viewed it because of our contract. she's currently banging my phone right now and texted me that one message. any thoughts?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
i changed both of our account password in facebook just to prevent unexpected changes. i still gotta go through 5 more days, she said that we're not supposed to change anything yet and wait til the last day, well just have to hold on to it so changed both and haven't touched them since. what are ur thoughts?
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Iceberg
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Yeah....so, let's just ignore this guy.
@mm92: well one of the reasons why i changed that was also to see if she would still try to contact me even if i did that, well she did.
how did i manage to get a gf? uhh...ive been in a lot of relationships already since 2007, idk if im going to **** this up, the only loophole with what i was doing was that i forgot she knew my number at home.
how did i manage to get a gf? uhh...ive been in a lot of relationships already since 2007, idk if im going to **** this up, the only loophole with what i was doing was that i forgot she knew my number at home.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ThreeStorms
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You know that she uses her FB account for other things than contacting you, do you?
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You changed her password to see if she would contact you? Of course she will! It's HER facebook account! After this, she will go NC for ONE eternity! Great job!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
youngmack
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WTF? Your not serious bro.. What does changing her password have to do with anything? Something is wrong with this guy
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So your paranoid that shes messing around with other guys?
Fair play to you - keep her on lock down = own her........
Fair play to you - keep her on lock down = own her........
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She wants space so she can sleep with other guys! Dump her!
Even you know she's up to no good, why else would you change passwords?
I'm sure you want to believe she's not ho'ing behind your back BUT, what High Interest girl wants space?
Even you know she's up to no good, why else would you change passwords?
I'm sure you want to believe she's not ho'ing behind your back BUT, what High Interest girl wants space?
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I don't want to offend, but you're a bit of a control freak. Like the other posters said, it makes 0 sense to change HER personal information just because she dumped you. Changing her personal information just to see if she'd contact you is stupid.
You're the girl here - desperately seeking attention (from her). The "unexpected changes" line is bull. Unless you so afraid she'd portray you negatively on facebook or something.
Dumb move man. Combine that with the desperation in your other posts (if it's the same girl) and you're never getting her back. Move on.
You're the girl here - desperately seeking attention (from her). The "unexpected changes" line is bull. Unless you so afraid she'd portray you negatively on facebook or something.
Dumb move man. Combine that with the desperation in your other posts (if it's the same girl) and you're never getting her back. Move on.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.