girlfriend asked for no contact for a week. well, i changed both of our account password in facebook just to play safe for unexpected changes. 2 days later she begs me to give her back her password and asks why i changed it. i havent touched it or even viewed it because of our contract. she's currently banging my phone right now and texted me that one message. any thoughts?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
i changed both of our account password in facebook just to prevent unexpected changes. i still gotta go through 5 more days, she said that we're not supposed to change anything yet and wait til the last day, well just have to hold on to it so changed both and haven't touched them since. what are ur thoughts?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Yeah....so, let's just ignore this guy.
@mm92: well one of the reasons why i changed that was also to see if she would still try to contact me even if i did that, well she did.
how did i manage to get a gf? uhh...ive been in a lot of relationships already since 2007, idk if im going to **** this up, the only loophole with what i was doing was that i forgot she knew my number at home.
how did i manage to get a gf? uhh...ive been in a lot of relationships already since 2007, idk if im going to **** this up, the only loophole with what i was doing was that i forgot she knew my number at home.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ThreeStorms
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You know that she uses her FB account for other things than contacting you, do you?
Love's Orphan
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You changed her password to see if she would contact you? Of course she will! It's HER facebook account! After this, she will go NC for ONE eternity! Great job!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
youngmack
Master Don Juan
WTF? Your not serious bro.. What does changing her password have to do with anything? Something is wrong with this guy
TonyBaloney
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So your paranoid that shes messing around with other guys?
Fair play to you - keep her on lock down = own her........
Fair play to you - keep her on lock down = own her........
Krueg
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She wants space so she can sleep with other guys! Dump her!
Even you know she's up to no good, why else would you change passwords?
I'm sure you want to believe she's not ho'ing behind your back BUT, what High Interest girl wants space?
Even you know she's up to no good, why else would you change passwords?
I'm sure you want to believe she's not ho'ing behind your back BUT, what High Interest girl wants space?
The LadyKiller
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I don't want to offend, but you're a bit of a control freak. Like the other posters said, it makes 0 sense to change HER personal information just because she dumped you. Changing her personal information just to see if she'd contact you is stupid.
You're the girl here - desperately seeking attention (from her). The "unexpected changes" line is bull. Unless you so afraid she'd portray you negatively on facebook or something.
Dumb move man. Combine that with the desperation in your other posts (if it's the same girl) and you're never getting her back. Move on.
You're the girl here - desperately seeking attention (from her). The "unexpected changes" line is bull. Unless you so afraid she'd portray you negatively on facebook or something.
Dumb move man. Combine that with the desperation in your other posts (if it's the same girl) and you're never getting her back. Move on.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.