"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girfriend adding a guy on Facebook

vagrant

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Tell me this is Sh*t is normal. I can't seem to tell when I'm f*ckin mad. It's a first too calling while her phone is off. :box:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How was I supposed to know that it was your gf? I'm just trying to do some stabbin'...
 

amoka

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Damn, what kind of AFC question is that. Your girl cannot add a guy to her facebook page? why don't you put her in a cell and monitor her 24/7?
 

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Even if you are gonna stare at her facebook profile constantly, at least don't act like you do. Did you stop adding girls now that you're in a relationship?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha.......

What type of insecure and kindergarten question is that? Girls add guys on facebook and myspace when they have boyfriends.... its normal, just like you add girls when you have a girlfriend. Its called having a social life. You are being a drama queen... im telling you uncensored.
 

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I sense a heavy amount of "boo" if you say you met her online;) However with that being said it's no big deal. It could be any reason. Just yesterday I had a random married female add me for a facebook game. Always be sure of the context.
 

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are you serious? you should NOT have a girlfriend if her having facebook guy friends makes you jealous
 

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yea man dont worry, Im assuming she has a fair amount of guys on her facebook, youd be silly to worry about all of them macking on your girl.
 

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lol, so now you're paranoid about your girlfriend interacting with anyone but you?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You need to set the frame of the relationship when it doesn't go your way. Tell her, seriously, how this makes you feel and that she needs to stop if you are going to stay in this relationship. If you do not snub this she will keep adding guys to her facebook until she forgets you even exist.
 

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PeeGee said:
You need to set the frame of the relationship when it doesn't go your way. Tell her, seriously, how this makes you feel and that she needs to stop if you are going to stay in this relationship. If you do not snub this she will keep adding guys to her facebook until she forgets you even exist.
lol gimme a break

I would laugh my ass off along with the rest of the world if I heard some dude broke up with his girl because she added a guy to facebook

and sitting his girl down to have a serious talk about adding guys to facebook, I'd love to sit in on that, it would be pathetically hilarious
 

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better break up with her. she might be talking to guys everyday too.
 

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what... the... fvck...

wow... you have been here since 2006 and you are asking questions like that? You drunk or something?

comic_relief
 

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ready123 said:
lol gimme a break

I would laugh my ass off along with the rest of the world if I heard some dude broke up with his girl because she added a guy to facebook

and sitting his girl down to have a serious talk about adding guys to facebook, I'd love to sit in on that, it would be pathetically hilarious
I think the smiley at the top of peegee's post says it all. Nuff said :D

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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vagrant said:
Tell me this is Sh*t is normal. I can't seem to tell when I'm f*ckin mad. It's a first too calling while her phone is off. :box:
well lets see ... she is a human female young and cute so what makes you expect her to only be interested inn mating with you???? Yeh she is in a "relationship" with you but that means nothing as far as her carnal human nature is concerned..

What can you do? Well nothing..

Except add females to your facebook and real life which is what you should have been doing any way...lol You cant change her or control her.. All you can do is try and retain access to her PU$$Y for a cheap as possible for as long as possible...
 

DonGorgon

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Thatfeel21 said:
are you serious? you should NOT have a girlfriend if her having facebook guy friends makes you jealous
this aint just about facbook.. he knows she is dding guy friends in real life he just didi not mention it in this post... He has not accepted that humans are not monogamous.. So he is trying to fight reality.. ultimately wasting his time and putting his access to her PU$$Y in certain jepardy..
 

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Punch her in the face man. Get that AFC ****e out of here. A DJ wouldn't think twice about it. Slap her up and then see if she still wants the ****. If she doesn't....take that ****e man!

Then, while you're in jail, when Abdul adds another little white fish to his repertoire, go up to that saggy pants ***** and his kufi-wearing daddy and slap the ****e out of them. DJ style. Real men die for this yo!
 

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I don't see why the hate on teh guy. His gut is telling something is up with her adding this guy to her profile. Next thing we know she could be gushing about this new guy (or just saying how he's a jerk, yada yada yada. We all know how that usually goes when a chick is talking about another guy (if he gets into her he and she's thinking about him when he's not around, she'll be slobbing his knob soon enough if you don't take steps to prevent it. Best to squash this now rather than later IMO, IF IF IF he's actually a suitor. If it's her cousin or something benign then no worries. If it's some guy from work, school, whatever then either lay down the law and risk pushing her away/"smothering" her, or just spin more plates. I'm a big fan of the latter.

Being in high demand makes them value you more. If there is another guy getting her attention, which this may be the case, him being in demand and having preselection will get her focus back no him.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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