"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Girfriend adding a guy on Facebook
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
BongDuy
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user43770
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Daydream Engineer
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What type of insecure and kindergarten question is that? Girls add guys on facebook and myspace when they have boyfriends.... its normal, just like you add girls when you have a girlfriend. Its called having a social life. You are being a drama queen... im telling you uncensored.
trajhenkhet02
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However with that being said it's no big deal. It could be any reason. Just yesterday I had a random married female add me for a facebook game. Always be sure of the context.
Thatfeel21
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
ready123
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lol gimme a breakPeeGee said:
I would laugh my ass off along with the rest of the world if I heard some dude broke up with his girl because she added a guy to facebook
and sitting his girl down to have a serious talk about adding guys to facebook, I'd love to sit in on that, it would be pathetically hilarious
comic_relief
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wow... you have been here since 2006 and you are asking questions like that? You drunk or something?
comic_relief
comic_relief
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I think the smiley at the top of peegee's post says it all. Nuff saidready123 said:
comic_relief
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
DonGorgon
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well lets see ... she is a human female young and cute so what makes you expect her to only be interested inn mating with you???? Yeh she is in a "relationship" with you but that means nothing as far as her carnal human nature is concerned..vagrant said:
What can you do? Well nothing..
Except add females to your facebook and real life which is what you should have been doing any way...lol You cant change her or control her.. All you can do is try and retain access to her PU$$Y for a cheap as possible for as long as possible...
DonGorgon
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this aint just about facbook.. he knows she is dding guy friends in real life he just didi not mention it in this post... He has not accepted that humans are not monogamous.. So he is trying to fight reality.. ultimately wasting his time and putting his access to her PU$$Y in certain jepardy..Thatfeel21 said:
Then, while you're in jail, when Abdul adds another little white fish to his repertoire, go up to that saggy pants ***** and his kufi-wearing daddy and slap the ****e out of them. DJ style. Real men die for this yo!
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Being in high demand makes them value you more. If there is another guy getting her attention, which this may be the case, him being in demand and having preselection will get her focus back no him.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.