"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Giddy, fluttery and crazy feelings

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"Most women are love addicts. And while we appreciate the depth and richness of long-time love, there is simply nothing like the giddy, fluttery, crazy feeling we get (or rather, used to get) with a brand-new guy."
from the thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=107141

And as we all know, it is absolutely true. Like what David D likes to say, attraction isn't a choice.

So, while it's easy to spark the initial attraction (personality, c&f, negs, conversationalist etc.), share your top secret ideas on that surprise "fall in love all over again" move you pull when you're a few months into a LTR.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Fire away, being the unpredictable fun exciting DJ that all women love
 
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Man all this talk about love is making me insecure about my sexuality and masculinity.

Come on guys, everybody knows it.... romantic love is OUT OF STYLE YO

and everybody also knows that love is GAY. my philosophy is hump 'em, then dump 'em. heh... I'm pretty proud of myself for that one.
 
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You could say that, but if everyone thought that way there wouldn't be any kid growing up with fathers. I also think that if you're truly happy with your life, you're open to the idea of a LTR IF the right girl comes along

Surely there are DJs in LTR here?
 
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