"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Giddy, fluttery and crazy feelings

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"Most women are love addicts. And while we appreciate the depth and richness of long-time love, there is simply nothing like the giddy, fluttery, crazy feeling we get (or rather, used to get) with a brand-new guy."
from the thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=107141

And as we all know, it is absolutely true. Like what David D likes to say, attraction isn't a choice.

So, while it's easy to spark the initial attraction (personality, c&f, negs, conversationalist etc.), share your top secret ideas on that surprise "fall in love all over again" move you pull when you're a few months into a LTR.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fire away, being the unpredictable fun exciting DJ that all women love
 
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Man all this talk about love is making me insecure about my sexuality and masculinity.

Come on guys, everybody knows it.... romantic love is OUT OF STYLE YO

and everybody also knows that love is GAY. my philosophy is hump 'em, then dump 'em. heh... I'm pretty proud of myself for that one.
 

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You could say that, but if everyone thought that way there wouldn't be any kid growing up with fathers. I also think that if you're truly happy with your life, you're open to the idea of a LTR IF the right girl comes along

Surely there are DJs in LTR here?
 
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