"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Giddy, fluttery and crazy feelings

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"Most women are love addicts. And while we appreciate the depth and richness of long-time love, there is simply nothing like the giddy, fluttery, crazy feeling we get (or rather, used to get) with a brand-new guy."
from the thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=107141

And as we all know, it is absolutely true. Like what David D likes to say, attraction isn't a choice.

So, while it's easy to spark the initial attraction (personality, c&f, negs, conversationalist etc.), share your top secret ideas on that surprise "fall in love all over again" move you pull when you're a few months into a LTR.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Fire away, being the unpredictable fun exciting DJ that all women love
 
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Man all this talk about love is making me insecure about my sexuality and masculinity.

Come on guys, everybody knows it.... romantic love is OUT OF STYLE YO

and everybody also knows that love is GAY. my philosophy is hump 'em, then dump 'em. heh... I'm pretty proud of myself for that one.
 

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You could say that, but if everyone thought that way there wouldn't be any kid growing up with fathers. I also think that if you're truly happy with your life, you're open to the idea of a LTR IF the right girl comes along

Surely there are DJs in LTR here?
 
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