First date was great. Good convo, made out at the end for a while. Couple weeks later we have a second date. Again great convo. When I go to drop her off we end up making out for like an hour. Feeling all over each other. Top off, riding on top.. Prob would have smashed if she wasn’t on her period. I could feel the tampon through her yogas so she wasn’t lying. Anyways then I just message her once or twice next couple days. Nothing serious just the usual texts I would send and no response. Vanished. Wtf? Usually I have some clue if a girl isn’t into me .. she clearly was or else she’s an amazing actress.. only thing I can think of is she’s a few years older (37) and maybe that was weird for her. I don’t care really it’s just weird to me. How a chick can seem so into you and be all over you and then boom gone. Only thing I can think of is the age thing or maybe some other guy. This happen to anyone else before?
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Ghosted after second date?
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
niceguytoalphamale
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Come on bro, I’ve had girls I’ve known for 10+ years give me crazy sex one night, only to record me the next night to use it in court.
This is normal behaviour, especially for a 37+ year girl who is childless and unmarried.
marmel75
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You really need to evaluate the type of people you allow into your life....this doesnt happen to people who eliminate these types of people from their life.
A little too much time between the dates and then you (1) texted her too soon after a second date, to which you (2) double texted when she didn’t reply.
It can happen, but you can sometimes reduce the likelihood by not doing those two things.
And she’s probably seeing others.
It can happen, but you can sometimes reduce the likelihood by not doing those two things.
And she’s probably seeing others.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Don’t take it personal. Most likely had nothing to do with you OP. 9 out of 10 times there’s another guy in the picture when that happens. She probably knew the next date there was going to be sex so she chickened out. Don’t try to understand why women do what they do, just keep adding plates.
Unfortunately it’s discovered too late. They never have “not the best person” written in red on their forwards.
Maybe I’m too gullible.
niceguytoalphamale
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@Trump and boy don't we see it until it's too late FML. They put there best foot forward and 6 months later bam different hoe
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
niceguytoalphamale
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@Medina and make her cook. Then again can't turn a hoe into a housewife
Haha well I would certainly make her help. Great opportunity to flirt around the kitchen too.
Point is after ghosting she has to make the effort!
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
She was out of town. She travels for work
And were you texting her the entire time as well?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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So into you is smashing not excusing her period. This is where guys are delusional similar to old ladies thinking they got it still. They don't. As for the make out, its usually self affirmation that, she's still attractive likely having got chucked by Chad or Tyrone.
The metric for success is not to backwards rational female logic. Its to decipher reality as it is and any blind spots you have.
Moreover, as a bloke who pissed his 20s away on 'game,' women aren't worth it. I have never met one that is worthy of the ring and I wont hold my breathe there otherwise. The first thing to get right is your paper and purpose. I spent a lot of time with game but I was a hardcase and beta awaiting divorce rape plus baby mamma drama. The path i took, i don't recommend anybody else take. Seek competence. Apply it to game. Lifestyle, edu, resources, etc. And yes, get girls but, allocation of too much time on useless women is stupid.
Spend more time building your business, resources, investments, income stacks, alternative options for income sources, etc. Learn to code. Problem solve.
Imagine, if the golden standard for girl problem was known. The secret wasn't a secret anymore
#nextSet #ontothenext1 #repeat
Moreover
Moreover
every chick is practice
Act accordingly.
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Dont put too much thought into it even though you want to.
Women are very finicky creatures. Who knows what happened. The only thing for certain is you shouldnt be reaching out to her anymore.
The guys saying your texting scared her off are just saying things for likes. If a woman is into you, texting her too soon or more than once won't make her think "OMG I really liked the guy until he texted me too soon. On to the next one." Ridiculous. Anyways I agree with those saying it more than likely has nothing to do with you. My bet is she has skeletons hiding in her closet who she is tending to or she got hit by a bus.
speed dawg
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Please stop giving advice, especially when you're being hostile. Being needy is probably the single biggest turnoff.
This chick has tons of guys texting her daily. The one thing this guy had going for him was that he was new and a challenge, but now he's lumped in with the rest.
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
She probably does have other orbiters, but they always do. Shouldn't matter to you.
Communicating too much was probably the downfall here. Pretty textbook coming on too strong, I would think. Girls will go along with it for a while but then usually vanish quickly.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.