happypcrepair
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my gf says she wants a kid. what do you think about this?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
do you want a kid? That's all that really matters. If you do then decide if you want to have one with her. If you don't then tell her that. One of 2 things will happen. 1, she'll respect that and not harass you about it. or (most likely) 2, she wants a kid bad and that'll be the end of your relationship. Sounds like her biological clock is ticking down.
WaterTiger
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Unless you want to get married & devote your life to her and raising a child, the only...ONLY thing you should say to her is:happypcrepair said:my gf says she wants a kid. what do you think about this?
GOODBYE!
If she wants to get pregnant...she will. Then you're stuck paying for it for the next 18 years.
happypcrepair
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Good point. Thanks guys.
How long have you been together? If it's a only a short while, there's a (small) chance it's just a test to see where you are on the whole thing. Otherwise, the advice everyone else gave you is spot on.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Guoy Darko
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You don't give a lot of information, now do you? How old are you? How old is she? How long have you been together? Do you want a kid yourself?
lol, I was joking dude.muscleman said:Don't wear 2 condoms, that's retarded.
Da Realist
Master Don Juan
The question is does she want A baby or YOUR baby?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.