happypcrepair
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my gf says she wants a kid. what do you think about this?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
do you want a kid? That's all that really matters. If you do then decide if you want to have one with her. If you don't then tell her that. One of 2 things will happen. 1, she'll respect that and not harass you about it. or (most likely) 2, she wants a kid bad and that'll be the end of your relationship. Sounds like her biological clock is ticking down.
WaterTiger
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Unless you want to get married & devote your life to her and raising a child, the only...ONLY thing you should say to her is:happypcrepair said:my gf says she wants a kid. what do you think about this?
GOODBYE!
If she wants to get pregnant...she will. Then you're stuck paying for it for the next 18 years.
happypcrepair
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Good point. Thanks guys.
How long have you been together? If it's a only a short while, there's a (small) chance it's just a test to see where you are on the whole thing. Otherwise, the advice everyone else gave you is spot on.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Guoy Darko
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You don't give a lot of information, now do you? How old are you? How old is she? How long have you been together? Do you want a kid yourself?
lol, I was joking dude.muscleman said:Don't wear 2 condoms, that's retarded.
Da Realist
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The question is does she want A baby or YOUR baby?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.