So, last night I saw my GFs Facebook and it turns out that she is sending some guy from her hometown Secret Facebook messages (which i dont get the point of). I also saw back in Xmas they were planning a fun first date in her hometown. Thoughts? I pretty much know the answer just want to make sure I am not crazy here.
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- Start date
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mrgoodstuff
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Alot of the 2019 21-34 years olds have half a dozen similar convos even if they have a man.
backseatjuan
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GF planning a date. hey! Not gf. 
Fck buddy. Othrs will say hard next, too harsh for me, I'm too soft, I'll keep fcking. So long as you cool with it not getting anyting serious and anyting beyond fbs, it's cool.
Fck buddy. Othrs will say hard next, too harsh for me, I'm too soft, I'll keep fcking. So long as you cool with it not getting anyting serious and anyting beyond fbs, it's cool.
soulforge
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Most dudes cannot keep fukin.. They are simply too emotionally involved.GF planning a date. hey! Not gf.
Fck buddy. Othrs will say hard next, too harsh for me, I'm too soft, I'll keep fcking. So long as you cool with it not getting anyting serious and anyting beyond fbs, it's cool.
Reverting back to fuk buddy, isn't something most can easily revert back.. Why keep yourself in a Toxic messy situation like this.. Best just to Ghost her Ass, and move on.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Murk
Master Don Juan
Yep, only possible to do this if you’re already plate spinning.
If you’re in a monogamous relationship this is a hard next, no explanation, true power.
I only hope I can bring myself to do that if the situation ever arises
soulforge
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Exactly.. Why keep her around to fuk, when she has shown such little respect for you.
Is there no other puzzy available elsewhere?
She doesn't even deserve your dik man.. If you are CERTAIN she is playing around or even emotionally cheating, then I would GHOST her Ass.
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AJ84
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This is how girls ruin your ass, because so many guys put up with crap just to keep getting sex. Saying he will demote her to plate status, FWB, etc is just as passive aggressive attempt to not lose her for the sex, like no other sex will ever be available from another girl. And how many girls happily go from gf to f**kbuddy anyway? How many of them take that ‘demotion’ and use it as an opportunity to f**k other guys completely guilt free.
Guys stop allowing this crap to happen to you!
Dump her ass and move on. Even if it means you have to date your right hand for a few weeks before getting another girl. Aim higher and women will realize they have to more worthy of your emotional investment.
Guys stop allowing this crap to happen to you!
Dump her ass and move on. Even if it means you have to date your right hand for a few weeks before getting another girl. Aim higher and women will realize they have to more worthy of your emotional investment.
soulforge
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Exactly... This woman treats you like crap.. And what do you do? You reward her with sex.
Then kid yourself into believing you have demoted her..
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
mrgoodstuff
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Its messy and degrading even if you think your okay with it.
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Has anyone here ever seen or talked to a ghost??????
Me either. So she would have already had her last conversation with me.
No explanation, no conversation....nothing.
POOOOFFFFFF........Dust in the wind. Never to reach out again.
Me either. So she would have already had her last conversation with me.
No explanation, no conversation....nothing.
POOOOFFFFFF........Dust in the wind. Never to reach out again.
lamath
Master Don Juan
Dont anwser
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
**** that op