So, last night I saw my GFs Facebook and it turns out that she is sending some guy from her hometown Secret Facebook messages (which i dont get the point of). I also saw back in Xmas they were planning a fun first date in her hometown. Thoughts? I pretty much know the answer just want to make sure I am not crazy here.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
GF on Facebook
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- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Alot of the 2019 21-34 years olds have half a dozen similar convos even if they have a man.
backseatjuan
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GF planning a date. hey! Not gf. 
Fck buddy. Othrs will say hard next, too harsh for me, I'm too soft, I'll keep fcking. So long as you cool with it not getting anyting serious and anyting beyond fbs, it's cool.
Fck buddy. Othrs will say hard next, too harsh for me, I'm too soft, I'll keep fcking. So long as you cool with it not getting anyting serious and anyting beyond fbs, it's cool.
soulforge
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Most dudes cannot keep fukin.. They are simply too emotionally involved.GF planning a date. hey! Not gf.
Fck buddy. Othrs will say hard next, too harsh for me, I'm too soft, I'll keep fcking. So long as you cool with it not getting anyting serious and anyting beyond fbs, it's cool.
Reverting back to fuk buddy, isn't something most can easily revert back.. Why keep yourself in a Toxic messy situation like this.. Best just to Ghost her Ass, and move on.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Murk
Master Don Juan
Yep, only possible to do this if you’re already plate spinning.
If you’re in a monogamous relationship this is a hard next, no explanation, true power.
I only hope I can bring myself to do that if the situation ever arises
soulforge
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Exactly.. Why keep her around to fuk, when she has shown such little respect for you.
Is there no other puzzy available elsewhere?
She doesn't even deserve your dik man.. If you are CERTAIN she is playing around or even emotionally cheating, then I would GHOST her Ass.
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AJ84
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This is how girls ruin your ass, because so many guys put up with crap just to keep getting sex. Saying he will demote her to plate status, FWB, etc is just as passive aggressive attempt to not lose her for the sex, like no other sex will ever be available from another girl. And how many girls happily go from gf to f**kbuddy anyway? How many of them take that ‘demotion’ and use it as an opportunity to f**k other guys completely guilt free.
Guys stop allowing this crap to happen to you!
Dump her ass and move on. Even if it means you have to date your right hand for a few weeks before getting another girl. Aim higher and women will realize they have to more worthy of your emotional investment.
Guys stop allowing this crap to happen to you!
Dump her ass and move on. Even if it means you have to date your right hand for a few weeks before getting another girl. Aim higher and women will realize they have to more worthy of your emotional investment.
soulforge
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Exactly... This woman treats you like crap.. And what do you do? You reward her with sex.
Then kid yourself into believing you have demoted her..
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
mrgoodstuff
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Its messy and degrading even if you think your okay with it.
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Has anyone here ever seen or talked to a ghost??????
Me either. So she would have already had her last conversation with me.
No explanation, no conversation....nothing.
POOOOFFFFFF........Dust in the wind. Never to reach out again.
Me either. So she would have already had her last conversation with me.
No explanation, no conversation....nothing.
POOOOFFFFFF........Dust in the wind. Never to reach out again.
lamath
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Dont anwser
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
**** that op