"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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gf is moving, what do i do

crazysheep45

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kind of an odd question but here goes:

I started being together with this girl about 4 days ago, and i just found out shes moving in like a month tops. She decided to tell me over the internet when i was 200 miles away for a family thing. I find out and the first thing i think is: "are we still going out?"

So my question to you guys is should i keep going out with her or jus say "nope, its gonna be too hard and wierd when you do move"

She says she wants to keep going out until she moves, but i dont kno what to say or do
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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wcknightjr

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How far away? If across the country and she won't be visiting like at least twice a month then try to at least go all the way and get some value outta this. You got nothin to lose even if you mess somethin up.
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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your girlfreind is moving, thats good you are 1 step further on the road to HB10, you have picked a girl freind which is moves, ie not an inanimate object, thats a good start keep it up!:p

hey longdistance relationships are not good but you didnt mentioned how far she is moving, if its just the other side of towm then no problem, but if its 500miles away then thats a problem and you should not stay with her if you can not see her much, you have only bene with her 4days so its not liek you where serious about her yet so im sure you will not have a problem moving on from her
 

jonny football hero

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Can you go out with someone who lives far away?

'part from shagging the phone, there's little else you can do.
 

Hot Ice

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Concentrate on other chicks. She being your gf or not!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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