"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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gf is moving, what do i do

crazysheep45

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kind of an odd question but here goes:

I started being together with this girl about 4 days ago, and i just found out shes moving in like a month tops. She decided to tell me over the internet when i was 200 miles away for a family thing. I find out and the first thing i think is: "are we still going out?"

So my question to you guys is should i keep going out with her or jus say "nope, its gonna be too hard and wierd when you do move"

She says she wants to keep going out until she moves, but i dont kno what to say or do
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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wcknightjr

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How far away? If across the country and she won't be visiting like at least twice a month then try to at least go all the way and get some value outta this. You got nothin to lose even if you mess somethin up.
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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your girlfreind is moving, thats good you are 1 step further on the road to HB10, you have picked a girl freind which is moves, ie not an inanimate object, thats a good start keep it up!:p

hey longdistance relationships are not good but you didnt mentioned how far she is moving, if its just the other side of towm then no problem, but if its 500miles away then thats a problem and you should not stay with her if you can not see her much, you have only bene with her 4days so its not liek you where serious about her yet so im sure you will not have a problem moving on from her
 

jonny football hero

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Can you go out with someone who lives far away?

'part from shagging the phone, there's little else you can do.
 

Hot Ice

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Concentrate on other chicks. She being your gf or not!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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