"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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gf is moving, what do i do

crazysheep45

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kind of an odd question but here goes:

I started being together with this girl about 4 days ago, and i just found out shes moving in like a month tops. She decided to tell me over the internet when i was 200 miles away for a family thing. I find out and the first thing i think is: "are we still going out?"

So my question to you guys is should i keep going out with her or jus say "nope, its gonna be too hard and wierd when you do move"

She says she wants to keep going out until she moves, but i dont kno what to say or do
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wcknightjr

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How far away? If across the country and she won't be visiting like at least twice a month then try to at least go all the way and get some value outta this. You got nothin to lose even if you mess somethin up.
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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your girlfreind is moving, thats good you are 1 step further on the road to HB10, you have picked a girl freind which is moves, ie not an inanimate object, thats a good start keep it up!:p

hey longdistance relationships are not good but you didnt mentioned how far she is moving, if its just the other side of towm then no problem, but if its 500miles away then thats a problem and you should not stay with her if you can not see her much, you have only bene with her 4days so its not liek you where serious about her yet so im sure you will not have a problem moving on from her
 

jonny football hero

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Can you go out with someone who lives far away?

'part from shagging the phone, there's little else you can do.
 

Hot Ice

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Concentrate on other chicks. She being your gf or not!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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