"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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gf is moving, what do i do

crazysheep45

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kind of an odd question but here goes:

I started being together with this girl about 4 days ago, and i just found out shes moving in like a month tops. She decided to tell me over the internet when i was 200 miles away for a family thing. I find out and the first thing i think is: "are we still going out?"

So my question to you guys is should i keep going out with her or jus say "nope, its gonna be too hard and wierd when you do move"

She says she wants to keep going out until she moves, but i dont kno what to say or do
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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wcknightjr

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How far away? If across the country and she won't be visiting like at least twice a month then try to at least go all the way and get some value outta this. You got nothin to lose even if you mess somethin up.
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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your girlfreind is moving, thats good you are 1 step further on the road to HB10, you have picked a girl freind which is moves, ie not an inanimate object, thats a good start keep it up!:p

hey longdistance relationships are not good but you didnt mentioned how far she is moving, if its just the other side of towm then no problem, but if its 500miles away then thats a problem and you should not stay with her if you can not see her much, you have only bene with her 4days so its not liek you where serious about her yet so im sure you will not have a problem moving on from her
 

jonny football hero

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Can you go out with someone who lives far away?

'part from shagging the phone, there's little else you can do.
 

Hot Ice

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Concentrate on other chicks. She being your gf or not!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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