Pair A Dice
Don Juan
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Why the fvck would you get into a LTR with her after only two months?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Cuz i liked her at the timePair A Dice said:Why the fvck would you get into a LTR with her after only two months?
It's something you have to do if you want the chick to stick around. You may not be ready, but chances are she's like a fvcking melon in the fruit store about to go bad if you don't commit to eating it.Pair A Dice said:Why the fvck would you get into a LTR with her after only two months?
I wasn't really concerned about her not sticking around, we had a FB couple of times a week thing going on so she was sticking around, it was more of the fact i actually liked her. But, then realized she has no idea how to treat men, so fvck it. I ended it.Desdinova said:It's something you have to do if you want the chick to stick around. You may not be ready, but chances are she's like a fvcking melon in the fruit store about to go bad if you don't commit to eating it.
And if you find that she's a piece of crap, there's nothing stopping you from ending it.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Does your husband post on the forum as well? You 'liked' her? Keep fvcking her without being locked down. She probably changed because you put a title on it.Crissco said:Cuz i liked her at the time
Bullsh!t. Why eat a melon you're not ready to purchase? Even if you are, there are tons of other melons in the box too, so why not try some others while you're at it?Desdinova said:It's something you have to do if you want the chick to stick around. You may not be ready, but chances are she's like a fvcking melon in the fruit store about to go bad if you don't commit to eating it.
And if you find that she's a piece of crap, there's nothing stopping you from ending it.
First off, who the fu*k are you to talk to me like that.Pair A Dice said:Does your husband post on the forum as well? You 'liked' her? Keep fvcking her without being locked down. She probably changed because you put a title on it.
Ease up. Just busting your balls. What made her girlfriend material?Crissco said:First off, who the fu*k are you to talk to me like that.
Second, ive done all that already, Like i said fu*k buddies, FWB, whatever, I wanted a girlfriend so I got one. Wasnt happy with her, left....End of story
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Before I go exclusive with a woman, I keep my options open. I generally date 2-3 women at one time and I ditch the ones who show their red flags early. The one that continues to show that she's low-maintenance and virtually free of baggage gets to keep me around, which I have absolutely no problem with. I like spending time with one woman who isn't a fvck head.Pair A Dice said:Bullsh!t. Why eat a melon you're not ready to purchase? Even if you are, there are tons of other melons in the box too, so why not try some others while you're at it?
Couldnt of said it better my self, hit the nail on the head.Desdinova said:Before I go exclusive with a woman, I keep my options open. I generally date 2-3 women at one time and I ditch the ones who show their red flags early. The one that continues to show that she's low-maintenance and virtually free of baggage gets to keep me around, which I have absolutely no problem with. I like spending time with one woman who isn't a fvck head.
I also need time to make sure she isn't a mess. Some women's red flags don't show up for months after you start dating. Once they start popping up and you don't like them, then get rid of her.
There's nothing wrong with giving a woman exclusivity if she's earned it.