yeah now I understand why the rainman name
you are saying things you hope is true, you can't say what she is really thinking because you can't never be sure, but hey each to his own
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
GF going on holiday.
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you are saying things you hope is true, you can't say what she is really thinking because you can't never be sure, but hey each to his own
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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I hope you have a better day tomorrow
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ok, keep telling yourself that & you might believe it.
OP, reality is, trip with your bros or girls' trip is charged with excitement and desire to hookup. She gets sh1tty with her friends, they go out, they got hot latin guys hitting on them, they want to have fun...
Even if she stays loyal to you, she'll feel like you owe her something because she was a prude and buzzkill to her friends.
Even if she stays loyal to you, she'll feel like you owe her something because she was a prude and buzzkill to her friends.