"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GF going on holiday.

Alvafe

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Of course she would care if I got with someone else. She would be devastated because she loves me.

I really cannot understand your mentality. You want to wrap a girl up in cotton wool.

I might follow your advice & lock my woman up in her room with her ball & chain. Pathetic!!
yeah now I understand why the rainman name

you are saying things you hope is true, you can't say what she is really thinking because you can't never be sure, but hey each to his own
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rainman4707

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yeah now I understand why the rainman name

you are saying things you hope is true, you can't say what she is really thinking because you can't never be sure, but hey each to his own
ok, keep telling yourself that & you might believe it.
 

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OP, reality is, trip with your bros or girls' trip is charged with excitement and desire to hookup. She gets sh1tty with her friends, they go out, they got hot latin guys hitting on them, they want to have fun...

Even if she stays loyal to you, she'll feel like you owe her something because she was a prude and buzzkill to her friends.
 
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