"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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GF going on holiday.

Alvafe

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Of course she would care if I got with someone else. She would be devastated because she loves me.

I really cannot understand your mentality. You want to wrap a girl up in cotton wool.

I might follow your advice & lock my woman up in her room with her ball & chain. Pathetic!!
yeah now I understand why the rainman name

you are saying things you hope is true, you can't say what she is really thinking because you can't never be sure, but hey each to his own
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rainman4707

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yeah now I understand why the rainman name

you are saying things you hope is true, you can't say what she is really thinking because you can't never be sure, but hey each to his own
ok, keep telling yourself that & you might believe it.
 

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OP, reality is, trip with your bros or girls' trip is charged with excitement and desire to hookup. She gets sh1tty with her friends, they go out, they got hot latin guys hitting on them, they want to have fun...

Even if she stays loyal to you, she'll feel like you owe her something because she was a prude and buzzkill to her friends.
 
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