GF doesnt care anymore

[Jetleg]

lately my GF is acting like a b1tch. She won't text, wont call and never suggest anything.

It startet about 10 days ago when she didnt feel like giving me a BJ, then she kicked and hit me during the night (she is 6'1 and strong - which kinda hurt), at mornning she said it was a mistake, i thought to my self - fine sh1t happens, and kegt first thing in the mornning.

This weekend it gotten worst, she only texts short messages,no winks - nothing anynore.

We went out for a drink after not seeing each other for a week. I invited her to my place like always but she said she "dont feel like anymore" and went home, then called me crying begging me to forgive her.
2 days ago she said she will call me and i havent heard from her ever since.

I have the feeling she is fading out, how would you approach this?

 

[SeymourCake]

Break up with her before she breaks up with you. Go NC. Find someone else.

Read The Anti Dump Machine in the DJ Bible.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Agreed. Get rid. Especially if she's violent. That's only gonna get worse, unless you split and she gets help. Trust, it happened to me, I retaliated, and guess who got in trouble.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

She's cheating

I would vote for this, especially if she does not feel like havin sex with you anymore.

 

[marmel75]

You obviously are viewed as a beta wimp by her.

There is no chance in hell any woman would think it's a good idea to put their hands on me. God help them if they did.

 

[Jetleg]

We'll its essier said than done, im not even close to being a wimp, but i still use my brain - if i touch her i go to jail.

 

[NSX-R]

She's cheating you . Which female would call you crying just because she wasn't feeling it in the last 2 days? The only logical explanation is that she felt bad for cheating on you and she made her self obvious so she tried to back it up.

Don't dump her yet but give up on the relationship. Go NC and start watching other plates.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Why are you still with your girlfriend? Anyway, you're at the beginning stages of this.

 

[marmel75]

We'll its essier said than done, im not even close to being a wimp, but i still use my brain - if i touch her i go to jail.

You may not view yourself as one, but she does, otherwise she wouldn't have hit you. She obviously has no fear of you nor any respect for you.

I'd dump this chick faster than I typed this.

 

[Yewki]

lately my GF is acting like a b1tch. She won't text, wont call and never suggest anything.

Withdraw attention, stop worrying about her, and pursue other girls.

Didn't need to read past the first two sentences of your post.

 

[RangerMIke]

When women start acting like this they are losing interest and/or another dude has floated into the picture. Only course of action is to back off and wait for her to contact you, until that happens make dates with other women you know.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Obviously she feels guilty about something...that's where the anger and the tears are coming from.

I think the best way to dump a woman is to go AFC on her. It's the most effective way of getting rid of her. Tell her you'll love her forever even if she has found someone else, hug her, and summon a crocodile tear or two as you say a sad goodbye. Then as soon as the door closes behind you, laugh your ass off all the way home.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

Obviously she feels guilty about something...that's where the anger and the tears are coming from.

I think the best way to dump a woman is to go AFC on her. It's the most effect way of getting rid of her. Tell her you'll love her forever even if she has found someone else, hug her, and summon a crocodile tear or two as you say a sad goodbye. Then as soon as the door closes behind you, laugh your ass off all the way home.

That's some machiavelian **** right here. I bet is effective as ****.

 

[fastlife]

That's some machiavelian **** right here. I bet is effective as ****.

Definitely is. Never got what was such a big deal about maintaining hand during a breakup. Literally the only thing that matters is that things end peacefully with a minimum of drama.

Red pill during relationships, blue pill during breakups--best of both worlds.

 

[l__i__l]

You lost. She reached the pedestal of not caring before you.
Don't waste your time now, just don't let it happen with the next one.

 

[Lozboss]

OP post update pls

My 2 cents: drop it like its hot. Go ghost NC, just block her and don't even tell her. You don't even want to salvage this.

 

[Fireballs]

I would super nuke the fvck outta her hamster by not saying a word and just disappear. Block her number, delete from social media and never speak to her again. Bit harsh but it's what I'd do.

 

[El Payaso]

I have the feeling she is fading out, how would you approach this?

Easy. You fade out too. Red Pill always says to give a woman less interest than her at all point on time so if she gives you 100, you give her 75. If she gives you 50, you give her 25. If she gives you 25, you give her 0.

Right now, she's giving you 0 so she shouldn't even exist to you.

Start dating other women, get involved with work, school or other projects, spend more time with your family, get into something active etc. These things will all take your mind off her that you won't even remember or care about the last time she called or what she did.

 

[evan12]

We'll its essier said than done, im not even close to being a wimp, but i still use my brain - if i touch her i go to jail.

You didnt even asked her to apologize , and you say you are not wimp , maybe you are not wimp but you don't have dignity

 

[penkitten]

lately my GF is acting like a b1tch.
2 days ago she said she will call me and i havent heard from her ever since.

I have the feeling she is fading out, how would you approach this?

it sounds as if she has already faded out of the picture. Update us when you can.