"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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GF always questioning if you really like her...

illmatic1005

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hey guys..my GF is always questioning whether i really like her or not..

at least once a day i get a call, talk, or email saying:

Do you really like me?
Are u just lying to me that u like me because u feel bad to say u dont?
Will u tell me if u ever stop liking me?
I really like you, but im not sure if u like me?

I really do like her...and i always tell her how much i do..but no matter what she still seems insecure..

any advice?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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steve12b

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Something is wrong. This happened in my relationship after we had our first serious argument, and while it's mostly gone away both of us still get pangs where we're not entirely sure that our feelings are mutual. After being in this funk for awhile you need to get yourself out by doing someting fun and exciting, like when you first started dating. Most people can't maintain love (or like...whatever) without excitement, and you can't generate excitement without the help of shared experiences.
 

Leporello

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Next time you see her, throw her on the bed and ravish the daylights out of her.
 

illmatic1005

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Leporello said:
Next time you see her, throw her on the bed and ravish the daylights out of her.
oo.ive tried that..but she says "do u really like me or are u only using me to do stuff''
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Mr. Wise

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I wouldn't be able to have a relationship with a chick like that to be honest. But hey, to each his own however, I bet this is turning you off.
 

Juan_Man

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Just be glad that you're not the AFC in the relationship. But stop complimenting her and feeding her ego. It may bite you in the arse later when becomes confident and thinks she can do better than you.
 
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