"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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GF always questioning if you really like her...

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illmatic1005

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hey guys..my GF is always questioning whether i really like her or not..

at least once a day i get a call, talk, or email saying:

Do you really like me?
Are u just lying to me that u like me because u feel bad to say u dont?
Will u tell me if u ever stop liking me?
I really like you, but im not sure if u like me?

I really do like her...and i always tell her how much i do..but no matter what she still seems insecure..

any advice?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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steve12b

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Something is wrong. This happened in my relationship after we had our first serious argument, and while it's mostly gone away both of us still get pangs where we're not entirely sure that our feelings are mutual. After being in this funk for awhile you need to get yourself out by doing someting fun and exciting, like when you first started dating. Most people can't maintain love (or like...whatever) without excitement, and you can't generate excitement without the help of shared experiences.
 
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Next time you see her, throw her on the bed and ravish the daylights out of her.
 
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illmatic1005

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Leporello said:
Next time you see her, throw her on the bed and ravish the daylights out of her.
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oo.ive tried that..but she says "do u really like me or are u only using me to do stuff''
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I wouldn't be able to have a relationship with a chick like that to be honest. But hey, to each his own however, I bet this is turning you off.
 
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Just be glad that you're not the AFC in the relationship. But stop complimenting her and feeding her ego. It may bite you in the arse later when becomes confident and thinks she can do better than you.
 
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