"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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GF always questioning if you really like her...

illmatic1005

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hey guys..my GF is always questioning whether i really like her or not..

at least once a day i get a call, talk, or email saying:

Do you really like me?
Are u just lying to me that u like me because u feel bad to say u dont?
Will u tell me if u ever stop liking me?
I really like you, but im not sure if u like me?

I really do like her...and i always tell her how much i do..but no matter what she still seems insecure..

any advice?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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steve12b

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Something is wrong. This happened in my relationship after we had our first serious argument, and while it's mostly gone away both of us still get pangs where we're not entirely sure that our feelings are mutual. After being in this funk for awhile you need to get yourself out by doing someting fun and exciting, like when you first started dating. Most people can't maintain love (or like...whatever) without excitement, and you can't generate excitement without the help of shared experiences.
 

Leporello

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Next time you see her, throw her on the bed and ravish the daylights out of her.
 

illmatic1005

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Leporello said:
Next time you see her, throw her on the bed and ravish the daylights out of her.
oo.ive tried that..but she says "do u really like me or are u only using me to do stuff''
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mr. Wise

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I wouldn't be able to have a relationship with a chick like that to be honest. But hey, to each his own however, I bet this is turning you off.
 

Juan_Man

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Just be glad that you're not the AFC in the relationship. But stop complimenting her and feeding her ego. It may bite you in the arse later when becomes confident and thinks she can do better than you.
 
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