"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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GF always questioning if you really like her...

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illmatic1005

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hey guys..my GF is always questioning whether i really like her or not..

at least once a day i get a call, talk, or email saying:

Do you really like me?
Are u just lying to me that u like me because u feel bad to say u dont?
Will u tell me if u ever stop liking me?
I really like you, but im not sure if u like me?

I really do like her...and i always tell her how much i do..but no matter what she still seems insecure..

any advice?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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steve12b

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Something is wrong. This happened in my relationship after we had our first serious argument, and while it's mostly gone away both of us still get pangs where we're not entirely sure that our feelings are mutual. After being in this funk for awhile you need to get yourself out by doing someting fun and exciting, like when you first started dating. Most people can't maintain love (or like...whatever) without excitement, and you can't generate excitement without the help of shared experiences.
 
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Next time you see her, throw her on the bed and ravish the daylights out of her.
 
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illmatic1005

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Leporello said:
Next time you see her, throw her on the bed and ravish the daylights out of her.
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oo.ive tried that..but she says "do u really like me or are u only using me to do stuff''
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I wouldn't be able to have a relationship with a chick like that to be honest. But hey, to each his own however, I bet this is turning you off.
 
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Just be glad that you're not the AFC in the relationship. But stop complimenting her and feeding her ego. It may bite you in the arse later when becomes confident and thinks she can do better than you.
 
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