Nothing like the movies actually, just boring as hell, not much to do except smoke weed, fight and watch tv.Speaking of boyfriends, how was jail?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Nothing like the movies actually, just boring as hell, not much to do except smoke weed, fight and watch tv.Speaking of boyfriends, how was jail?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Thumbs up LA
You're pathetic.Spaz, we want to see more of your texting!
Prove to us how alpha you are
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Bad ratio there.
Why are you still messaging me after I told you to stop?You're pathetic.
Claims of grandeur but can't produce even a single hello from ANY women in the past 1 week.
How abt this entire year ? If u can't u r even worse then pathetic.
Fyi, SS is not a recruitment center for Incels.Why are you still messaging me after I told you to stop?
Do you have some kind of mental problem? lol
Why do you keep messaging me about bs after I told you to stop? What kind of mental disorder do you have that you just can’t stop messaging me?Fyi, SS is not a recruitment center for Incels.
This is the place where men can better themselves by following relevant experiences/knowledge from men that actually fvcks.
Go back 2 ur Incel forums and rant abt the madness of women.
Nah I feel you, I was just talking sh!t,Chinatown?
And i've stopped spinning plates. Haven't been with a woman (singular) in a few months.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That’s my man.Hostility.
Wrong model.Player frame is disingenuous compliments, don't you know?
Manly traits or leadership qualities knows no prejudices nor boundaries.Has to actually be proven valid in the West
Player frames don’t fall in love or complain about the market of women. Fake frames will get crushed when tested.Player frame is disingenuous compliments, don't you know?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You are in the “complain about the market” camp right now.So can I, depending on whether I want a relationship or not. You're conflating two different things.
LA I think the problem isn’t so much what you wrote but that you care so much that you posted your texts and are now seeking to analyze it. It’s all about attitude, and I think the only problem here is that you care too much.Take your ego out of your analysis for like 5 seconds lol. it's almost like you're just speculating about game and relationships rather than understanding the basic course these things take
I see the evidence. I hear your complaints. I see a contradiction.Take your ego out of your analysis for like 5 seconds lol. it's almost like you're just speculating about game and relationships rather than understanding the basic course these things take
The thing with monogamy is it naturally makes a man needy over time, unless you’re a sociopath who can just walk away.I'm just posting bc others are lol. This particular girl is a nobody fbuddy.
However, you can find a girl for monogamy that is worth her salt simply because I can.it's been explained over and over and over again to you and others that we are monogamy oriented men doing what we have to do in a polyandry oriented market, but you are going to continue to confuse and conflate and word salad everything to pretend your advice is relevant to us monogamous types.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.