Nothing like the movies actually, just boring as hell, not much to do except smoke weed, fight and watch tv.Speaking of boyfriends, how was jail?
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Nothing like the movies actually, just boring as hell, not much to do except smoke weed, fight and watch tv.Speaking of boyfriends, how was jail?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Thumbs up LA
You're pathetic.Spaz, we want to see more of your texting!
Prove to us how alpha you are
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Bad ratio there.
Why are you still messaging me after I told you to stop?You're pathetic.
Claims of grandeur but can't produce even a single hello from ANY women in the past 1 week.
How abt this entire year ? If u can't u r even worse then pathetic.
Fyi, SS is not a recruitment center for Incels.Why are you still messaging me after I told you to stop?
Do you have some kind of mental problem? lol
Why do you keep messaging me about bs after I told you to stop? What kind of mental disorder do you have that you just can’t stop messaging me?Fyi, SS is not a recruitment center for Incels.
This is the place where men can better themselves by following relevant experiences/knowledge from men that actually fvcks.
Go back 2 ur Incel forums and rant abt the madness of women.
Nah I feel you, I was just talking sh!t,Chinatown?
And i've stopped spinning plates. Haven't been with a woman (singular) in a few months.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That’s my man.Hostility.
Wrong model.Player frame is disingenuous compliments, don't you know?
Manly traits or leadership qualities knows no prejudices nor boundaries.Has to actually be proven valid in the West
Player frames don’t fall in love or complain about the market of women. Fake frames will get crushed when tested.Player frame is disingenuous compliments, don't you know?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You are in the “complain about the market” camp right now.So can I, depending on whether I want a relationship or not. You're conflating two different things.
LA I think the problem isn’t so much what you wrote but that you care so much that you posted your texts and are now seeking to analyze it. It’s all about attitude, and I think the only problem here is that you care too much.Take your ego out of your analysis for like 5 seconds lol. it's almost like you're just speculating about game and relationships rather than understanding the basic course these things take
I see the evidence. I hear your complaints. I see a contradiction.Take your ego out of your analysis for like 5 seconds lol. it's almost like you're just speculating about game and relationships rather than understanding the basic course these things take
The thing with monogamy is it naturally makes a man needy over time, unless you’re a sociopath who can just walk away.I'm just posting bc others are lol. This particular girl is a nobody fbuddy.
However, you can find a girl for monogamy that is worth her salt simply because I can.it's been explained over and over and over again to you and others that we are monogamy oriented men doing what we have to do in a polyandry oriented market, but you are going to continue to confuse and conflate and word salad everything to pretend your advice is relevant to us monogamous types.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.