Nothing like the movies actually, just boring as hell, not much to do except smoke weed, fight and watch tv.Speaking of boyfriends, how was jail?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Nothing like the movies actually, just boring as hell, not much to do except smoke weed, fight and watch tv.Speaking of boyfriends, how was jail?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Thumbs up LA
You're pathetic.Spaz, we want to see more of your texting!
Prove to us how alpha you are
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bad ratio there.
Why are you still messaging me after I told you to stop?You're pathetic.
Claims of grandeur but can't produce even a single hello from ANY women in the past 1 week.
How abt this entire year ? If u can't u r even worse then pathetic.
Fyi, SS is not a recruitment center for Incels.Why are you still messaging me after I told you to stop?
Do you have some kind of mental problem? lol
Why do you keep messaging me about bs after I told you to stop? What kind of mental disorder do you have that you just can’t stop messaging me?Fyi, SS is not a recruitment center for Incels.
This is the place where men can better themselves by following relevant experiences/knowledge from men that actually fvcks.
Go back 2 ur Incel forums and rant abt the madness of women.
Nah I feel you, I was just talking sh!t,Chinatown?
And i've stopped spinning plates. Haven't been with a woman (singular) in a few months.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That’s my man.Hostility.
Wrong model.Player frame is disingenuous compliments, don't you know?
Manly traits or leadership qualities knows no prejudices nor boundaries.Has to actually be proven valid in the West
Player frames don’t fall in love or complain about the market of women. Fake frames will get crushed when tested.Player frame is disingenuous compliments, don't you know?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You are in the “complain about the market” camp right now.So can I, depending on whether I want a relationship or not. You're conflating two different things.
LA I think the problem isn’t so much what you wrote but that you care so much that you posted your texts and are now seeking to analyze it. It’s all about attitude, and I think the only problem here is that you care too much.Take your ego out of your analysis for like 5 seconds lol. it's almost like you're just speculating about game and relationships rather than understanding the basic course these things take
I see the evidence. I hear your complaints. I see a contradiction.Take your ego out of your analysis for like 5 seconds lol. it's almost like you're just speculating about game and relationships rather than understanding the basic course these things take
The thing with monogamy is it naturally makes a man needy over time, unless you’re a sociopath who can just walk away.I'm just posting bc others are lol. This particular girl is a nobody fbuddy.
However, you can find a girl for monogamy that is worth her salt simply because I can.it's been explained over and over and over again to you and others that we are monogamy oriented men doing what we have to do in a polyandry oriented market, but you are going to continue to confuse and conflate and word salad everything to pretend your advice is relevant to us monogamous types.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.