Nothing like the movies actually, just boring as hell, not much to do except smoke weed, fight and watch tv.Speaking of boyfriends, how was jail?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Nothing like the movies actually, just boring as hell, not much to do except smoke weed, fight and watch tv.Speaking of boyfriends, how was jail?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Thumbs up LA
You're pathetic.Spaz, we want to see more of your texting!
Prove to us how alpha you are
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bad ratio there.
Why are you still messaging me after I told you to stop?You're pathetic.
Claims of grandeur but can't produce even a single hello from ANY women in the past 1 week.
How abt this entire year ? If u can't u r even worse then pathetic.
Fyi, SS is not a recruitment center for Incels.Why are you still messaging me after I told you to stop?
Do you have some kind of mental problem? lol
Why do you keep messaging me about bs after I told you to stop? What kind of mental disorder do you have that you just can’t stop messaging me?Fyi, SS is not a recruitment center for Incels.
This is the place where men can better themselves by following relevant experiences/knowledge from men that actually fvcks.
Go back 2 ur Incel forums and rant abt the madness of women.
Nah I feel you, I was just talking sh!t,Chinatown?
And i've stopped spinning plates. Haven't been with a woman (singular) in a few months.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
That’s my man.Hostility.
Wrong model.Player frame is disingenuous compliments, don't you know?
Manly traits or leadership qualities knows no prejudices nor boundaries.Has to actually be proven valid in the West
Player frames don’t fall in love or complain about the market of women. Fake frames will get crushed when tested.Player frame is disingenuous compliments, don't you know?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You are in the “complain about the market” camp right now.So can I, depending on whether I want a relationship or not. You're conflating two different things.
LA I think the problem isn’t so much what you wrote but that you care so much that you posted your texts and are now seeking to analyze it. It’s all about attitude, and I think the only problem here is that you care too much.Take your ego out of your analysis for like 5 seconds lol. it's almost like you're just speculating about game and relationships rather than understanding the basic course these things take
I see the evidence. I hear your complaints. I see a contradiction.Take your ego out of your analysis for like 5 seconds lol. it's almost like you're just speculating about game and relationships rather than understanding the basic course these things take
The thing with monogamy is it naturally makes a man needy over time, unless you’re a sociopath who can just walk away.I'm just posting bc others are lol. This particular girl is a nobody fbuddy.
However, you can find a girl for monogamy that is worth her salt simply because I can.it's been explained over and over and over again to you and others that we are monogamy oriented men doing what we have to do in a polyandry oriented market, but you are going to continue to confuse and conflate and word salad everything to pretend your advice is relevant to us monogamous types.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.