Okay, so I've read some articles that you DJ's have written and let me tell you they make a load of sense...anyways I haven't found an article yet to help me in my main problem. I have met this HB10. She goes to my school. Drop dead gorgeous. We went out a LONG time ago back in the 7th grade but just a few days ago we started hanging out again. I want to know how can I persuade thsi girl to think about me and her again? Is there an article on this or can someone give me some tips?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Getting this girl...
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Brother, read the DJ BIBLE.
Top right corner.
Anything you want to know about this kind of situation.
And get it in your head that she's an hb9, there is no such thing as a perfect girl. But that's still pretty damn top-grade.
Keep us updated
Top right corner.
Anything you want to know about this kind of situation.
And get it in your head that she's an hb9, there is no such thing as a perfect girl. But that's still pretty damn top-grade.
Keep us updated
First it wouldn't be a bad idea to read the whole thing through. There will still be a lotta stuff you still won't understand but that's fine. If you ever have a question, just skim through it again and find an article that pertains to your situation. I also suggest that you go through with the boot camp too. It'll do wonders for your confidence and social skills. Good luck man.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
i am but that will take atleast a week...i'm chillen with this girl this whole weekend...and let me add she grabbed my junk tonight (we were a lil tipsy but i feel she knew what she was going) but shes got a bf and i pretty much need to find a technic that will make her lunge at me (if possible haah)
but shes got a bf and i pretty much need to find a technic that will make her lunge at me (if possible haah)StrangeButTrue
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Get techniques and all that **** outta your head. Go read This thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=56120
It's not technique, it's attitude, and lifestyle.
It's not technique, it's attitude, and lifestyle.
Strange hit the nail right on the head. Why change what you're doing for some techniques that worked for other guys? Sure, more than likely they will work for you too, but if things are going well so far, then why change your approach? Take it from me, the Don Juan Bible is just a big guide. Following things step by step is going to make you into a mindless robot. Have some sense and use your own intuition. Make up your own habits and techniques and I promise you you'll be much better off and more unpredictable.
Ohh well I def have a great attitude and i'm quite confident while talking to her its just that I think shes interested in both my friend and I and I wanted to know if threes anything in specific I could use to get her to be like let me get with toddC instead of his friend.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
ah the old 7-10 split (nifty name, eh? made it up myself).
i had this problem with a girl. just keep up the c&f and kino and she'll forget about that other guy. or at least the girl i digged did.
i had this problem with a girl. just keep up the c&f and kino and she'll forget about that other guy. or at least the girl i digged did.
i'm hoping only reason why i'd htink my friend has the upper hand is because her best friend is like texting him saying like hey we chillen tonigth rigth and hes liek yea she slike yea i'll get with lustgarten (my other other friend) and you can **** kim (the girl i want) but i think its a joke cause hes told her he wanted kim and she just hasn't done the shti shes done to me to him so i'm going to have to agree with you guys btw....what is c & f ?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
nothing came up???
type it "c&f"
and in the bible...under attraction and aditude
type it "c&f"
and in the bible...under attraction and aditude