"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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toddC

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Okay, so I've read some articles that you DJ's have written and let me tell you they make a load of sense...anyways I haven't found an article yet to help me in my main problem. I have met this HB10. She goes to my school. Drop dead gorgeous. We went out a LONG time ago back in the 7th grade but just a few days ago we started hanging out again. I want to know how can I persuade thsi girl to think about me and her again? Is there an article on this or can someone give me some tips?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Brother, read the DJ BIBLE.
Top right corner.
Anything you want to know about this kind of situation.
And get it in your head that she's an hb9, there is no such thing as a perfect girl. But that's still pretty damn top-grade. :)
Keep us updated :)
 

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that bible is HUGE!!! any specifics to concentrate on?
 

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First it wouldn't be a bad idea to read the whole thing through. There will still be a lotta stuff you still won't understand but that's fine. If you ever have a question, just skim through it again and find an article that pertains to your situation. I also suggest that you go through with the boot camp too. It'll do wonders for your confidence and social skills. Good luck man.
 
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Ahh my main man Toddc. lol. Read the bible. lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i am but that will take atleast a week...i'm chillen with this girl this whole weekend...and let me add she grabbed my junk tonight (we were a lil tipsy but i feel she knew what she was going) :) but shes got a bf and i pretty much need to find a technic that will make her lunge at me (if possible haah)
 

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Strange hit the nail right on the head. Why change what you're doing for some techniques that worked for other guys? Sure, more than likely they will work for you too, but if things are going well so far, then why change your approach? Take it from me, the Don Juan Bible is just a big guide. Following things step by step is going to make you into a mindless robot. Have some sense and use your own intuition. Make up your own habits and techniques and I promise you you'll be much better off and more unpredictable.
 

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Ahh too true but a proper mindset is key. I have never really used the techniques but with the proper mindset they come naturally.
 

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Ohh well I def have a great attitude and i'm quite confident while talking to her its just that I think shes interested in both my friend and I and I wanted to know if threes anything in specific I could use to get her to be like let me get with toddC instead of his friend.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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dannowillbookem

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ah the old 7-10 split (nifty name, eh? made it up myself).

i had this problem with a girl. just keep up the c&f and kino and she'll forget about that other guy. or at least the girl i digged did.
 

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Yeah Toddc you have the game won already. Toddc's got this chick nailed.
 

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i'm hoping only reason why i'd htink my friend has the upper hand is because her best friend is like texting him saying like hey we chillen tonigth rigth and hes liek yea she slike yea i'll get with lustgarten (my other other friend) and you can **** kim (the girl i want) but i think its a joke cause hes told her he wanted kim and she just hasn't done the shti shes done to me to him so i'm going to have to agree with you guys btw....what is c & f ?
 

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C&F is ****y and funny and it is the best way to get a chick whos uninterested interested. C&F is probaly ma main tool right now.
 

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is there an article on C+F I can read? I searched it but nothing came up.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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