Okay, so I've read some articles that you DJ's have written and let me tell you they make a load of sense...anyways I haven't found an article yet to help me in my main problem. I have met this HB10. She goes to my school. Drop dead gorgeous. We went out a LONG time ago back in the 7th grade but just a few days ago we started hanging out again. I want to know how can I persuade thsi girl to think about me and her again? Is there an article on this or can someone give me some tips?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Getting this girl...
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Brother, read the DJ BIBLE.
Top right corner.
Anything you want to know about this kind of situation.
And get it in your head that she's an hb9, there is no such thing as a perfect girl. But that's still pretty damn top-grade.
Keep us updated
Top right corner.
Anything you want to know about this kind of situation.
And get it in your head that she's an hb9, there is no such thing as a perfect girl. But that's still pretty damn top-grade.
Keep us updated
First it wouldn't be a bad idea to read the whole thing through. There will still be a lotta stuff you still won't understand but that's fine. If you ever have a question, just skim through it again and find an article that pertains to your situation. I also suggest that you go through with the boot camp too. It'll do wonders for your confidence and social skills. Good luck man.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
i am but that will take atleast a week...i'm chillen with this girl this whole weekend...and let me add she grabbed my junk tonight (we were a lil tipsy but i feel she knew what she was going) but shes got a bf and i pretty much need to find a technic that will make her lunge at me (if possible haah)
but shes got a bf and i pretty much need to find a technic that will make her lunge at me (if possible haah)StrangeButTrue
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Get techniques and all that **** outta your head. Go read This thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=56120
It's not technique, it's attitude, and lifestyle.
It's not technique, it's attitude, and lifestyle.
Strange hit the nail right on the head. Why change what you're doing for some techniques that worked for other guys? Sure, more than likely they will work for you too, but if things are going well so far, then why change your approach? Take it from me, the Don Juan Bible is just a big guide. Following things step by step is going to make you into a mindless robot. Have some sense and use your own intuition. Make up your own habits and techniques and I promise you you'll be much better off and more unpredictable.
Ohh well I def have a great attitude and i'm quite confident while talking to her its just that I think shes interested in both my friend and I and I wanted to know if threes anything in specific I could use to get her to be like let me get with toddC instead of his friend.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
ah the old 7-10 split (nifty name, eh? made it up myself).
i had this problem with a girl. just keep up the c&f and kino and she'll forget about that other guy. or at least the girl i digged did.
i had this problem with a girl. just keep up the c&f and kino and she'll forget about that other guy. or at least the girl i digged did.
i'm hoping only reason why i'd htink my friend has the upper hand is because her best friend is like texting him saying like hey we chillen tonigth rigth and hes liek yea she slike yea i'll get with lustgarten (my other other friend) and you can **** kim (the girl i want) but i think its a joke cause hes told her he wanted kim and she just hasn't done the shti shes done to me to him so i'm going to have to agree with you guys btw....what is c & f ?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
nothing came up???
type it "c&f"
and in the bible...under attraction and aditude
type it "c&f"
and in the bible...under attraction and aditude